Saturday, October 25, 2025

2025 Project 365 – Week Forty-three

I was rudely informed today that my best friend’s daughter’s wedding is in TWO WEEKS. I’m making a sweater to wear to it and I am not even close to being finished. The good news, though, is that I’m also not sure it will even work so it might not matter if I finish. Ha!
Sunday, October 19th        
We have a CD of our Christmas cantata music, and we were trying to figure out this ancient technology so that I could play it (there was no “on” button!).

Monday, October 20th   
No photo, but there is this screen shot of one of my Instagram friends’ stories. She likes to take photos of her pond & make us find the frogs. And I “cheat” by taking a screen shot so I can blow it up because I can hardly ever even see a frog. I’m going to help you guys out by letting you know that she cheated on this one – there are only two frogs.
 

Tuesday, October 21st     
I had an appointment with a nephrologist today to discuss my kidney function. She was a lovely doctor who told me I won’t need dialysis any time soon, but she also told me to quit taking Celebrex and that was very hard news.
 

Wednesday, October 22nd     
I got a low air pressure warning on Tuesday so that night Dr. M used an air compressor to pump up all four tires. Unfortunately, using the car power outlet drained the battery, so Wednesday morning he had to jumpstart my car. I’ve known that my battery is getting weaker, and this was my sign to just go ahead & get a new one.
 

Thursday, October 23rd   
This was how Dr. M was rolling after he heard a Led Zeppelin song in the Honey’s IGA. Ha!
 

Meanwhile, I was out buying way too much stuff for our church’s Trunk or Treat.


Friday, October 24th          
No photo.  
 
Saturday, October 25th
Trunk or Treat! Dr. M & I were the Funny Farm. We had a nice time! I’m including photos of my favorite costumes – Taco Belle & Cruella De Vil.
 

I posted this on the socials today: It’s time for an airing of grievances. (I imagine you have some too.)

I have so much arthritis in my shoulder that my doctor was impressed! Straight to surgery for you young lady! Skip the physical therapy, but here try a shot first (it actually helped).

I have stage 3a kidney disease. It’s a baby stage - hardly even worth mentioning - except that it spells the end of my dependence on Celebrex and its ilk. Here - have some Tylenol & God have mercy on your soul! (Tylenol is useless except maybe if I THINK it’s working will it have a placebo effect?)

My thumbs, freed from the tyranny of NSAIDs have awakened & are making crocheting a sweet torture (I AM HYPERBOLATING but ouch). And my knees are getting into the act. And Winter is Coming.

Oh! And I had to have a tooth pulled!

And these are just my minor(ish) physical complaints. The insanity that is our current government is a whole other situation. Can I just mention that families losing SNAP benefits while the White House is being defaced so that a ball room can be built is a slap in the face of any American with a heart? I don’t care who is paying for it - let them fund food for families who need it! And don’t get me started on ICE and the dismantling of all of the government agencies who keep us safe.

I’m tired. And I’m a little annoyed at my body. And I’m afraid for the folks who don’t have the privilege that I do. And I just needed to get all of that off of my chest. Whew!

Sunday, October 19, 2025

2025 Project 365 – Week Forty-two

It’s cold (ish) and damp and I’m getting ready to hunker down for a long winter’s nap. But wait! Did you know that fall/early winter are the times when All The Things happen? I keep having to leave my house to do things. Yes, they are things that I signed up to do, but that doesn’t make me any less salty about it.

Sunday, October 12th        
I was getting ready to leave dad & Sue’s house when I saw this album and had to take a photo. Have you ever heard a Jerry Clower routine? You should check him out – it’s a treat!

Monday, October 13th  
Dr. M made a delicious vegetable beef soup. 
 

Tuesday, October 14th    
From the socials: I had to have a tooth extracted today & really throughout the process I was a rockstar (other than some whining before the pain meds kicked in). But I read the “post-surgery” instructions & apparently, I can’t brush my teeth for 24 hours. Please keep me in your thoughts and prayers. I’m not a drama queen, but I play one in real life.
 

Wednesday, October 15th    
My newest shirt from The Happy Givers.
 

Thursday, October 16th  
Dr. M says: “…I just love these shoes! I gambled with $100 or so and ordered two pairs, as pictured. No, this is not an ad. My feet are complicated, my budget is tight, and the hassle of getting insurance approved diabetic shoes is real. I know firsthand from trying to get good shoes for Pop. So when I saw the ads on instagram for these, I took a chance. So far, so good! I have neuropathy, not from diabetes but from lumbar fusion surgery. In short, I could feel my feet before surgery, but I couldn’t after. My favorite $100+ Merrell mocs just didn’t give me a wide enough base or elasticity that allowed for swelling feet. In fact they cost me a big toenail earlier this year. I don’t know how long these shoes will last, and yes, the factory is in China, but they really work for me in terms of walking around grocery stores, etc. again, not an ad, just a very pleasant experience.” 
 

Friday, October 17th          
Another gorgeous meal by Dr. M (there are chicken thighs under there somewhere). 
 

Saturday, October 18th
Dr. M & I and thousands of our closest friends decided to go leaf peeping on the Blue Ridge Parkway today. It was bumper to bumper, and we both started feeling a little claustrophobic. I’m glad we got to see the loveliness, but as I told Dr. M – Hickory has pretty trees in the fall too!
 


I didn’t make it out to a No Kings rally yesterday, but reading about all the peaceful demonstrations and the millions of people participating gave me hope for the future. If they have another one, I might have to make an effort to attend. First, I’ll need to get an inflatable frog costume though… Where is your hope-o-meter these days?

Sunday, October 12, 2025

2025 Project 365 – Week Forty-one

You’ll be happy to know that after starting antibiotics & steroids my tooth has calmed down. But this is its last hurrah – that sucker is coming out on Tuesday. If I’d known we were going to eventually pull it, I probably wouldn’t have gotten that root canal in 2021.

Sunday, October 5th        
I saw this Jeep on my way home from church and thought What Fresh Hell is this – you just never know what a giant flag might mean, but it’s often something awful. Turns out it’s about suicide prevention! Made my heart happy.
 


I finished the blanket & had its photo shoot today. Simple scallop border, which I think is better since the blanket is so busy. (Note – it’s a little whoppy jawed because I was not going to crawl around on the deck straightening it out).



Monday, October 6th  
I’m doing my best to help out the Girl Scout Economy. In fact, I’m so invested in it, I might have to order a couple of more boxes of these very delicious sea salt caramel dealios. 
 

Tuesday, October 7th    
The only photo is this shot of the palmetto cheese sandwich I had for breakfast. It was delicious!
 

Wednesday, October 8th    
Things I learned this week: I have a CD player in my car! It still skips when I hit a bump! Nostalgia! I should have the Christmas cantata memorized by next choir rehearsal. (Note: I will not have it memorized.) 
 

Thursday, October 9th  
I’ve been struggling with my glasses ever since I got new lenses in June. I’ve wondered if my eyes had changed since my previous eye exam (last October), or if they’d used the wrong prescription. This week I became convinced that they’d put the left prescription in the right lens & vice versa. They definitely work better upside down in some cases (in fact, I have them on upside down while writing this). Weird. I have an exam tomorrow so I’ll have the doc check it out.
 

Friday, October 10th          
Dr. M had his first eye exam in a while on Thursday (that’s him driving home post dilation). He posted this to the socials on Friday: PSA: if you’re 60+ years old and haven’t had a comprehensive eye exam in a while or maybe ever, get one and be sure they photograph your retinas. Yesterday I was diagnosed with Atrophic (dry) macular degeneration. I suspected they would find it in my eyes because Pop has it. That doesn’t mean I’m okay with the news! At present it’s a life sentence. The grid and Areds 2 vitamins are now a way of life for me as I self-monitor for changes. So is getting my eyeballs dilated and photographed every six months. AMD is real, but so is the effectiveness of these vitamins in mitigating long term damage from dry age-related macular degeneration.
 

Saturday, October 11th
Another busy day in Buglandia. First up was a Bridal Brunch with my cousin/best friend Kim’s daughter. The theme was Abigail’s Next Chapter (she’s a big reader) & it was very bookish so I loved it.
 



Then I went to a baby shower for another cousin’s daughter, which was a lot of fun.
 

Finally, WeenWear in action! (I stole that phrase from Kim). Isn't Ruby adorable?

Dr. M’s diagnosis had a sobering effect on the week, despite the return of hockey (the Canes are 2-0 baby!). His dad was diagnosed at a later age, so that’s worrisome, but here is hoping that it progresses so very slowly that by the time he really needs it, there’s a cure. I don’t want to make light of things, but when I read that it’s mainly found in white men I figured that they were working Very Hard on things. Also, there’s the chance that society as we know it will entirely collapse. So we’ll see!

Sunday, October 5, 2025

2025 Project 365 – Week Forty

Nothing to say this week. Well, lots to say, just not HERE.
Sunday, September 28th       
The sign outside my church. Makes my heart happy. 

I made a dinosaur cowl for a friend’s wiener dog.

Monday, September 29th  
You just think you’ve seen this outfit before – I’m wearing a different sweater with it!
 

Tuesday, September 30th    
Changed out my calendar for October. I laughed at myself – this square represents me and three friends (the ones who’ve been getting together every Christmas since college). I decided to use it for Mental Health Day. Ha! 
 

Wednesday, October 1st    
I posted this in my crochet group because I was second guessing this border & everyone agreed that it was too open for a blanket (it might catch toes & such). So I frogged it & did something different, which you shall see next week. 
 

Thursday, October 2nd
No photo.
 
Friday, October 3rd            
We had a skeleton crew at work so I bought us some cookies. Not pictured: the chocolate chip that we scarfed right up.
 

Another fine meal by Dr. M. Yum!
 

Saturday, October 4th
No photo, but we basically watched post season baseball all day.
 
How many times have I complained about an infected tooth? Also, how many times does it act up heading into the weekend? Oof. There is practically no pain as annoying and excruciating as tooth pain. I have an appointment with the dentist tomorrow morning so hopefully I can get an antibiotic and be back to whining about other things. Also, hopefully they can figure out what’s causing it. Because this is VERY ANNOYING. What’s annoying you these days? (Other than The Politics because that’s a given.)


Saturday, September 27, 2025

2025 Project 365 – Week Thirty-nine

At work we all agreed that this was The Longest Week Ever. We weren’t sure why, but we were sure glad for it to be over. On the other hand, other than a sore arm for a few days, I had no ill effects from my COVID booster – AND the cortisone shot has definitely helped with my shoulder pain.
Sunday, September 21st      
Took take-out to Dad & Sue’s (Dr. M joined us!) but Tragedy! I cut both thumbs opening the aluminum container that had my shrimp and grits in it. The food was good, but apparently dangerous. (Note: my thumbs were fine after a couple of days.)


Monday, September 22nd  
I bought myself a Mary Engelbreit calendar for 2026. She is actually a very fiery advocate for all the peoples. Check out the empowerment section of her Amazon store here!
 


Tuesday, September 23rd   
I’m currently reading David Gate’s  book “A Rebellion of Care” and it is fabulous. Every page is an ah or a kick in the gut or a happy sigh. You should check it out! I shared this because of the Tylenol kerfuffle (and that makes it sound like no big deal, but why are all these medical decisions hurting women in particular?) 
 

Wednesday, September 24th   
Another beautiful (and tasty!) meal by Dr. M and his iron. 
 

Thursday, September 25th  
I saw this tiny little sticker on the car in front of me & it made me smile.
 

We watched a documentary about Tecumsah & William Henry Harrison & I remembered all over again that our nation was founded in blood by men who just took what they wanted. And that many religious leaders at the time found justification for the bloodshed in their Bibles. Sound familiar? As Dr. M is fond of saying, Jesus Wept. And so do I.
 

Friday, September 26th             
I’m gonna go out on a limb here & say that it’s possible that I added a smidge too much cinnamon to these apples. Perhaps. 
 

Saturday, September 27th
My dad made jam from his grapes and it is FABULOUS. Its tartness curls my tongue in just the right way. I might have to have another piece of toast for dessert later!
(Glimpses of my water bottles for subversive purposes.)
 

I was going to get my car inspected today & rootle around the Goodwill, but after my Very Long work week I decided that I just needed to be at home all day. I wound some yarn, crocheted an orange and brown dinosaur cowl for a weenie dog (photos next week), washed sheets, and read a book. And it’s not even 3:30 yet! Happy sigh. What have you been up to?

2025 Project 365 – Week Forty-three

I was rudely informed today that my best friend’s daughter’s wedding is in TWO WEEKS. I’m making a sweater to wear to it and I am not even c...