Sunday, April 19, 2020

2020 Project 365 – Week Sixteen


Another week of a pretty much regular routine splashed with anxiety and random mask wearing. And lots of handwashing & sanitizer!
Sunday, April 12th                                                          
Zoom church on Easter Sunday. VERY WEIRD! But we had communion (I didn’t have wine OR juice, so I drank a grapefruit LaCroix). It was nice to see some of our usual church suspects!


I worked on a stash-buster project. The flower is about 9 ½ inches across. I’m not too sure what I think about it. That’s how stash-busters are to me – the colors are not ones that I would have chosen. And the amount of yarn dictated the order in which I used them. Just weird. But it kept me out of trouble for an hour or so.


Monday, April 13th                         
Miss Rita the red geranium is blooming!


Tuesday, April 14th                                                            
Your weekly Roy.


I worked from home & it was so nice to sit on the deck during my lunch hour & crochet.


Wednesday, April 15th                                                      
Thought my hair was kind of cute today.


They gave us a couple of different masks at work. I gave one of them to Dr. M & he was trying it on. I also made one of those ear savers, but I’m not too sure about it. We’ll see if it really works.


Thursday, April 16th      
Here we are, right in the middle of Bang Grow-Out Central. I look at this picture & think, oh come on – a little trim never hurt anyone! I just have never liked how I look with my bangs pulled back, which is why this phase is so dangerous.


Flowers! This is blue phlox, our knockout rose, azalea, and our little peach colored rose.


Friday, April 17th                                                                    
So when I get on the elevator at work I always try to punch the 3 button with my elbow. Lately I apparently can’t aim so I’m hitting 2 and 3 simultaneously. So I’ve had some nice leisurely rides.


Speaking of not being able to aim… Fortunately, the parking lot was mostly empty (it’s never full, and now lots of employees are working from home).


Date night dinner! Dr. M fixed some delicious salmon. Yum!


Saturday, April 18th                  
It was a lovely day! No planes in the sky, finished the square I’d been working on, Roy came by for a visit, and a cowbird checked out the bee waterer!


Just when I’d started feeling hopeful that we have all come together to fight a common enemy, the almighty dollar has raised its ugly head again in the form of demonstrations (at least some of them organized by right wing groups) to open the economy back up. What good is the economy if we kill even more people? And like I read someone else saying, it feels like interesting timing, coming just after we heard how devastating this virus is to people of color and the poorest among us. “Oh we don’t care about those people – we just want our money” I don’t feel like I’m articulating this very well. I’m mostly just sad.

Sunday, April 12, 2020

2020 Project 365 – Week Fifteen


I would like to blame the excess of pictures these last couple of weeks on the ‘rona, but we know that it’s always like this in spring. So just hunker down – you might be here a minute. And I didn’t even post the photos that Dr. M took of the Dr. Van Fleet rose blooming at his dad’s house! You can go here to look at what it looked like last year if you haven’t had enough pictures.
Sunday, April 5th                                                          
It was a lovely day. I did Zoom church in the morning and then sat outside and read and crocheted. It was  nice! Dr. M took this picture. Is it just me, or does it look like Jesus in the temple overturning the money changer's tables? No? I was hoping that someone was coming to our aid to address the inequities that this virus is bringing into stark relief. Although I know that most of my readers were very familiar with those inequities before all of this. 


Monday, April 6th                         
I asked the internet whether my coworkers would notice if I just left my slippers on. The results were inconclusive – but I changed to real shoes just in case.


Sigh.


Tuesday, April 7th                                                            
The moon!


Wednesday, April 8th                                                      
We’re trying to minimize the total number of people in the office at one time, so some of us are working from home a day or two a week. This past week I worked from home one day. It was nice to slip into a familiar routine. And skip wearing make up for one day. And, let’s be honest, skip wearing a bra. Ha! I didn’t take a picture of my very exciting work, so instead you get Roy!


Thursday, April 9th      
Once a week the City Manager’s Office at work has been feeding us breakfast from local restaurants. Today I had one of my favorites – livermush & egg sandwich. So good!


Dr. M had a nice afternoon of deck sitting. My little seedlings are sprouting!


Seen around the house.


Friday, April 10th                                                                    
I had the day off from work (yippee!). I got a little carried away with my seasonings on my brunch (fried egg, cheese, sweet potato). I used black pepper, cayenne pepper, and ancho chili. It was good!


Getting ready to wash my face & very nearly reached for the scissors. I had to post this picture on the web and ask folks to talk me down. Again, results were inconclusive, but so far I’m leaving the bangs alone.


Saturday, April 11th                  
Lunch! It wasn’t pretty, but it was delicious. That’s kale mixed in with the black beans. I was trying to be healthy.


Dr. M says: Wren, wren, pretty little wren, fly right up and jump right in! Carolina wren bathing in our bee watering dish.


I’ve finished two squares to be added to the blanket pictured on December 20th in this post. I’m adding two rows down the sides (12 squares) so it will fit a bigger bed. I love making these squares. Too bad I’ve pretty much run out of people to give blankets to. Ha!


Date night! Salmon, asparagus, potatoes, & carrots, and a hockey game that first aired in December.


Finally, Dr. M & I participated in that thing where people were posting their high school pictures in solidarity with the class of 2020 (I’m sure that none of my friends includes anyone in that category – ha!). Dr. M couldn’t quickly find his high school picture, so here he is with his Doctoral hood shortly before his hooding ceremony. What strikes me about my picture is I remember thinking I was fat. Oh young lady, it’s too bad you didn’t know how cute you were at the time!


Today is Easter Sunday. I’ve been a little frustrated by all the extra content that the people I follow on social media have been compelled to provide. I don’t have time to listen to an hour long daily Instagram Live – or even 15 minutes if more than two of them are doing one. And these are people who I feel are saying important things – things I’d like to hear. So today I gave myself permission to wallow in all the things people offered up for consideration today. Nadia Bolz Weber, Sarah Bessey, Kate Bowler, our transition pastor at our church…. It was really nice to just sink into all of these fine words. I feel a little more ready to face the week ahead. How did you spend your day?

Tuesday, April 7, 2020

Book Reviews - the March Edition


It seems crazy that another month has ended & it’s time for my book reviews. It feels like I should be getting even more reading done these days, but as I think I mentioned in another post I’m having trouble concentrating. Nevertheless, I have six books to review.

1. Something Read, Something Dead (Lighthouse Library Series #5), by Eva Gates.  ★★★★ Dark deeds in the Lighthouse Library threaten to send Lucy Richardson's soon-to-be-wed cousin Josie to an early 'til-death-do-us-part. 

The Bug Says: Somehow I accidentally ended up reading the 5th book in this series without having read any of others. It was pretty cute – a cozy mystery set in a library in a lighthouse on the NC coast? Sign me up!

2. The Lonely Hearts Hotel, by Heather O’Neill. Did Not Finish A spellbinding story about two gifted orphans in love with each other since they can remember whose childhood talents allow them to rewrite their future.

The Lonely Hearts Hotel is a love story with the power of legend. An unparalleled tale of charismatic pianos, invisible dance partners, radicalized chorus girls, drug-addicted musicians, brooding clowns, and an underworld whose economy hinges on the price of a kiss. In a landscape like this, it takes great creative gifts to thwart one's origins. It might also take true love.

The Bug Says: I never don’t finish a book. Well, let’s say I finish about 99.9% of the books I start. But this one was just too…. I can’t even describe it. I might have been ok with the very dark and slightly pornographic story line, but the style of the writing was just too weird for me. It got so annoying that I did something else I never do – found a review that told how the story ended. Once I saw where this was headed I decided to not waste any more time on it. Lots of other people like it though, so have at it if it sounds interesting to you.

3. The Hate U Give, by Angie Thomas. ★★★★★ Sixteen-year-old Starr Carter moves between two worlds: the poor neighborhood where she lives and the fancy suburban prep school she attends. The uneasy balance between these worlds is shattered when Starr witnesses the fatal shooting of her childhood best friend Khalil at the hands of a police officer. Khalil was unarmed.

Soon afterward, his death is a national headline. Some are calling him a thug, maybe even a drug dealer and a gangbanger. Protesters are taking to the streets in Khalil’s name. Some cops and the local drug lord try to intimidate Starr and her family. What everyone wants to know is: what really went down that night? And the only person alive who can answer that is Starr.

But what Starr does—or does not—say could upend her community. It could also endanger her life.

The Bug Says: I didn’t think I would like this book. The subject matter is difficult. The main character is a teenage girl (and I am so tired of books about teenage girls). But it was so good. I’ve been sitting here for a few minutes trying to explain what was so good (the relationships between the characters, the humor, the descriptions of the balancing act that Starr engages in every day…). I don’t know why – it just clicked. Also, the narrator did a great job, which always helps.  

4. The Water Dancer , by Ta-Nehisi Coates. 
★★★★★ Young Hiram Walker was born into bondage—and lost his mother and all memory of her when he was a child—but he is also gifted with a mysterious power. Hiram almost drowns when he crashes a carriage into a river, but is saved from the depths by a force he doesn't understand, a blue light that lifts him up and lands him a mile away. This strange brush with death forces a new urgency on Hiram's private rebellion. Spurred on by his improvised plantation family, Thena, his chosen mother, a woman of few words and many secrets, and Sophia, a young woman fighting her own war even as she and Hiram fall in love, he becomes determined to escape the only home he's ever known.

So begins an unexpected journey into the covert war on slavery that takes Hiram from the corrupt grandeur of Virginia's proud plantations to desperate guerrilla cells in the wilderness, from the coffin of the deep South to dangerously utopic movements in the North.

The Bug Says: At the other end of the spectrum (or maybe at the beginning of the spectrum) from The Hate U Give is this excellent book that gives a whole new twist to the Underground Railroad. It is beautifully written, and the story is so fascinating. Again, not my usual fare, but I highly recommend it!

5. The Giver of Stars, by Jojo Moyes.
★★★★ Alice Wright marries handsome American Bennett Van Cleve hoping to escape her stifling life in England. But small-town Kentucky quickly proves equally claustrophobic, especially living alongside her overbearing father-in-law. So when a call goes out for a team of women to deliver books as part of Eleanor Roosevelt’s new traveling library, Alice signs on enthusiastically.

The leader, and soon Alice’s greatest ally, is Margery, a smart-talking, self-sufficient woman who’s never asked a man’s permission for anything. They will be joined by three other singular women who become known as the WPA Packhorse Librarians of Kentucky.

The Bug Says: Set in a pre-WWII Kentucky mining town, this book has all the themes that you might expect: misogyny, union busting, racism, anti-intellectualism… But it was a really good read – not as depressing as it sounds like it might be.


6. By Hook or By Crook (Crochet Mystery #3), by Betty Hechtman. ★★★ Molly Pink's crochet group has a new mystery on their hands when they find a paper bag that contains a note that speaks of remorse, a diary entry of the sorrow of parting, and a complicated piece of filet crochet that offers an obscure clue in pictures. Things get even more complicated when they find the talented crocheter-murdered by a box of poisoned marzipan apples. 

The Bug Says: Here is another series book that I started in the middle. I was attracted to it for obvious reasons (a crochet mystery? I’m in!), but it was just ok. The characters were a little bit annoying – but I think that if I’d “met” them from the beginning I might have liked them better. But what really didn’t click for me was the “complicated piece of filet crochet” that they were using to solve the mystery. Some of the panels were just dumb. Yes, dumb. But it was a cute & fast read – I might read the next one if I come across it.

I’m writing this out on the deck on a lovely spring Saturday afternoon. It would be the perfect time to finish my current book (The Starless Sea – a very bizarre book that I’m strangely fascinated by). So I think I’ll just stop writing now & start reading. What is holding your interest these days?



Sunday, April 5, 2020

2020 Project 365 – Week Fourteen


Last week felt pretty surreal to me. It dragged & sped by. I worked and worried. Dr. M’s father’s Meals on Wheels got canceled (due to lack of volunteer to deliver), so Dr. M was extra stressed. This weekend has FLOWN by, and now it’s almost time to start all over again. But before I pick out what I’m going to wear to work tomorrow, let’s discuss the week past.
Sunday, March 29th                                                          
I was a little ambitious with my omelet. As you can see, I couldn’t even fold it. It has mushrooms, tomatoes, asparagus, and a great big ole gob of cheese. Delicious!


We got new deck furniture and spent some quality time outside. Which made our allergies flare up & caused a bit of paranoia. No fever though, so we’re all good.


Monday, March 30th                         
Dr. M saw a whole earful of cedar waxwings (yes, I googled it – that’s what they’re called – ha!), but they were so well camouflaged that he couldn’t get a good picture. Mama cardinal, however, was in focus.


Deployed my Anti-Bang-Cutting Security Devices. Seem to be working pretty well. So far. 


Tuesday, March 31st                                                           
I’m still playing with the Waterlogue app. Fun!


Dr. M is also still feeding me very well!


Wednesday, April 1st                                                     
Dr. M looked out & saw that it was my favorite kind of sky. It matched the painting that he made many moons ago.


Thursday, April 2nd     
Dr. M enjoyed the new deck furniture.


You should have the theme from Mission Impossible playing in your head when you look at these next pictures.


Meanwhile, at work, I had forgotten my Anti-Bang-Cutting Security Devices.


Friday, April 3rd                                                                    
When you accidentally set the reading speed on your audiobook to 1.25 it is surprisingly anxiety-producing. I listen to books because music doesn’t soothe the savage (road ragey) Bug. But this gave me heart palpitations. On the other hand, I guess it’s an option if the book is almost due back at the library...


Azaleas at Dr. M’s Pop’s house. Gorgeous!


Saturday, April 4th                  
I went by Daddy & Sue’s house to pick up something (we stayed well away from each other) and then went to CVS for some eye drops. I hadn’t been in a store in over a week so I wasn’t sure what to expect. I wore my handmade mask. Would you like to know how many other folks were wearing masks? Zero. I felt kind of idiotic, but I left it on.


It is so pretty around here! At least we have spring beauty to help see us through.




I finally pulled out my crochet today & finished one thing I’d been working on, so you’ll actually see some yarny stuff next week. Otherwise, who knows what the week will hold? I’m not sure even the Shadow knows at this point!

Wednesday, April 1, 2020

Nearly Wordless Wednesday

These are things that my friends have recently posted on my wall or tagged me in. It's nice to see that they're so worried about my mental health!





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